I’m in a weird pickle

Day 1

by Corran

May 13, 2025 at 05:39 AM

44 upvotes

So like, started chatting with a girl, things are going good, we just made plans to go see a movie and then she send a nude and starts asking sec questions, which, I’m trying to stay away from and I’m on this app to get rid of temptation. I think the idea of temptation and getting away from it probably answers my question but although we just had a long argument bout it, we still want to see eachother but idk if she can “wait” for marriage. Idk, id like to see her but I just don’t think it’s smart for me to do

Comments (6)

Corran•98d ago

Thank you all

Jude•98d ago

“God if she isn’t meant to be in my life, if she isn’t the one you’ve matched for me, I pray that you remove her from my heart. Remove her from my life and allow me to keep you at the center”

Real Tom cruise•98d ago

If you wish for a godly relationship this girl isn’t the one. Block her and go for a run.

Jacob•98d ago

It’s not smart especially if she is already speaking and texting you that way and if you are looking for a girl who is religious it seems the way you are as wanting to wait for marriage it’s not gonna be this girl who is already messaging you nude photos and talking about sex and going on this date will likely lead you to make a mistake

Jeff Thomas•98d ago

Great instincts. You need to bed resolute in your stance with anything having to do with sex. Show her kindness, say you need space, no sexting, but you’d love to get to know the real her. If she accepts peacefully, then there’s hope. If she gets offended, regardless if she gives in or not, that’s your next big red flag.

Will •98d ago

Gotta do what you feel is best for you

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