17 days/ quick little poll
Day 17
by Lo
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She’s slept with 5 and I’ve slept with 25. She wants to wait for marriage and I don’t mind. I thought well even if I multiply by three it’s not as much as mine so why not? What do you guys think?
She’s slept with 5 and I’ve slept with 25. She wants to wait for marriage and I don’t mind. I thought well even if I multiply by three it’s not as much as mine so why not? What do you guys think?
If she wants to wait for marriage respect that, that’s the right thing to do and you should want that.
Everyone’s reasons to want to wait are different. Just because she hasn’t slept with as many people as you doesn’t mean she doesn’t look at 5 as a lot. For example, I would say 5 is way more than I’m comfortable with in a partner at my age. Others would think 5 is nothing. Remember, her reason doesn’t necessarily need to be “I’ve slept with so many”. Whatever it is, if you are comfortable with her decision to wait now, then respect it. BUT if you aren’t comfortable with the fact that she slept with 5 but stops at you, it’s within your rights to not want that either