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Also, I know nothing, random dudes giving you advice on an app. But deep down, do you really want a girl as a future soulmate where you’re hearing rumors about a month into your relationship? Nah man. Remember, you’re the catch. Show it!

Ben, I don’t know your situation. If you think you can trust her then the conversation you two about the party has to be completely done and moved on the next day. If you think you’ll bring it up later in the future, or have doubts, then you’ll NEVER move on and your relationship will be over before you know it. (Only speaking from experience). It could be different. But I tried to move on from a rumor of my ex and turned out I just couldn’t shake that feeling. Wasn’t healthy for either of us. I had to move on. This is a tricky situation and I really hope you find peace in whatever decision you make.

My honest opinion is if you can’t get over the rumors then leave her . I’m a firm believer in energy not lying . If you feel like she did something then she probably did . It’s kind of like how women just know when they are being cheated on even if you aren’t in the same state (I know from experience.) if she telling the truth then she doesn’t deserve someone resenting them for something they didn’t do. Make a decision either trust her or don’t.

Strongly agree with Mikey and Bertrand. I’d only add that when she wakes up you should apologize for the fight and the stress that comes with it and you should come clean and tell her you have trust issues but that you want to learn to move past them and not let your past impact your current relationship.

It’s a clear attack from the enemy! Only thing I say say is pray about it and don’t waver! There is always some truth to a rumor but don’t let that get in the way of your relationship. If you truly love her, you’ll trust her. If she breaks that trust, that’s ultimately on her. The relationship won’t work out if you say you love her but don’t trust her. Can’t be halfway. I’ve made this mistake plenty of times and it has an unfavorable end each time. There’s evil in the world and there will always be something trying to disrupt your peace. Don’t let it get to you 😉

On the other hand controlled emotions is the best thing, try your best to not have an escalated argument my guy. Trust yourself, more importantly trust what God says. It’s normally that small voice that’s easy to miss if we are focused on chaos

Can’t cap to you, rumors will always come in because someone doesn’t want you with her. All I can say is what’s done in the dark will come to light. Don’t sweat it bro control yourself because what’s for you will be for you. If it ain’t for you, you’ll know whether to get out of there or not

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