Any tips
Day 0
by Nate
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Hi im on day 1 of my journey of stopping porn. I’ve made it to 57 days before but that was a coupon months back. I have a girlfriend and I feel like I’m struggling to enjoy sex. I really don’t get the satisfaction from sex. I enjoy watching porn more than I do sex. The dopamine rush form porn is so much better. But I really want to stop again any tips
Well see that’s the key, you’ve discovered the biggest reason why we quit porn. It’s designed to be better than sex. It’s a fantasy. BUT we’ve also learned that quitting the porn and the fantasy helps you enjoy sex more. It’s about what do you really want in life? Do you want your girlfriend and sex with her? Or do you want a picture or a video that speaks to your brain in ways unheard of? You have to choose, and then give up the candy to start enjoying the veggies. Eventually the veggies with even a hint of fantasy is the most erotic thing you’ve ever had. BUT that’s because you can become able to forget what the candy was like.