A Failed 4-Year Relationship

Day 6

by Anonymous

March 24, 2025 at 01:43 PM

77 upvotes

I have been addicted to porn for almost 20 years and it has made sober sex very difficult. I’ve dodged sex with girlfriends to use porn instead, leaving them feeling undesired and alone. I made the choice to get on this app after my most recent relationship ended (I lost sexual attraction to her and never could even be honest with her about my addiction and struggle). I’ve decided that I won’t ever let this happen again and I will recover and rebuild during this single period to create a meaningful sexual bond with my next lady.

Comments (3)

ThorB4•147d ago

I totally get you. I’m recovering in part to recover my marriage, which has been platonic for too long. 46 days in, I’m not healed all the way, but I’m so much better on every front. I have hope where I had none on day 0.

JT•148d ago

Keep Pushing and Pressing forward Gentlemen! The other side of who we are MEANT and called to be is waiting for us, and cheering us on! It is sooo much better and much more refreshing, and meaningful and it the struggle to be better will all be worth it!

Y•148d ago

I have slightly different, but similar experiences as you and is my motivation! I am in a new relationship and won’t let this addiction cause issues like before. We got this!

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