question…
Day 21
by Dexter
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so i’ve been clean for 21 days and this is the longest i’ve ever done and i’m grateful but i’ve been in a relationship for 3 years and for some reason i’m still attracted to older women with big boobs or big women in general and my gf is not in that category (i’m 20) what should i do?
You're going to feel attraction all the time, remember the grass isnt greener on the other side, it's green where you feed and water it. These feelings of attraction are just thoughts, YOU ultimately choose whether you act on them or not. Act in a way that you can look back and be proud of yourself for. You're still real young man, just try to learn everything you can and be the best version of yourself you can.