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Need some advice

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by Bryan
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Me and my girl got into a big argument and it’s led me to quit porn for the better I realized I had a problem but she was the push I needed to change. But she now wants to have sex and I’m not sure if it will lead to me relapsing or if that is ok to do any advise helps

Comments (4)
Alex79d ago

If it’s something you’d both enjoy, do it, as long as it doesn’t feed the addiction (i.e. influence you to watch porn). Sex is a huge goal in this process. Shit, if she wants to have sex with you five times a day and you’re down, as long as it’s not making you late for work or otherwise hurting your lives, it’s so much healthier than porn - go for it!

Nathan79d ago

yeah i second Ayham here. The goal should be to not think of porn anymore so relating your gf to that stuff could be pretty damaging. especially if you’ve got expectations and things don’t turn out how you expect. just enjoy that time with her yk.

Ayham79d ago

Maybe not do things you see in porn (in my humble opinion) but talk about what you’d both enjoy

Chepe79d ago

I would say it’s better because whenever you get the urge just go to her and have intercourse instead, it may make your relationship better and you won’t be master bating as much. Then you guys can try those things you’ve seen in porn and not need it at all.

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