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No Fap Debate

Day 101
by JACK
1918 upvotes

Here’s my two cents on it because it seems like this arguments coming up a lot. Background on me, I’m a Christian dude that has struggled with pornography and masturbation since I was seven years old. I’m now coming up on my 40th birthday and I have not had real success until this last year. In my experience, I’ve been able to give up pornography in the past without giving up masturbating, and the porn always comes back. Masturbating is like a gateway drug. It’s like nicotine I can give up smoking or dip and go with just straight up nicotine, but is it really that much better for me? Sure it’s not the worst thing and there’s definitely some health benefits to giving up smoking, but the problem still exists. If you’re a Christian, dude, and the secret is, if you’re any, dude, masturbation is not good for you, your soul, and your connection with our maker. It still robs you of your strength, your purity, and invite shame, secrecy, and dishonor into your life. Ever since I’ve walked away from both porn and masturbation, I feel like an absolute beast, like the man God had intended me to be. I live with no shame, I walk in strength and light, and it has absolutely impact it every aspect of my life… Productivity, relationships, my private life, and in my faith just to name a few. Guys take it for me It’s totally worth it not to mention you will be an absolute beast in bed. It’s awesome.

Comments (7)
Shrey54d ago

thank you for the post. super insightful. i know the path now

Drew54d ago

Amen

JACK54d ago

Oh, one more thing dude this is not all on you… Your wife needs to meet your needs too just as much as you meet her so there’s a happy medium there and she needs to learn that as well. You’re putting in the work brother and she needs to too. Enough enough enough of this woman only happy wife happy life bull crap. It takes two and compromises the name of the game.

JACK54d ago

You’re not alone in this dude. There’s a lot of guys like that myself included, or at least I was that way. It’s all about recapturing or capturing the man you’re supposed to be, and I believe what we’re defined by or at least one of the ways that we’re defined is our self control. This goes with anger and aggressiveness and violence. As member of the arm services were taught to control ourselves, even in times of severe conflict. I guess what I’m trying to say is that I definitely understand, but waving the white flag is not an option we may have when pursuing honor, integrity, and self-control. You got this bro and it’s definitely worth it. I’m telling you.

Austin54d ago

Unless I’m having sex 4-5 times a week I’m going to fap. My test is to high, my libido will literally have me in a horny rage if I don’t cum 4-5 times a week minimum. It’s not right to demand sex that often from my wife… there is no other choice. Fapping is the way.

JACK54d ago

Guys don’t make the mistake I did and wait too long to change your life. It cost me way more than I was willing to give up.

JACK54d ago

Sorry talk to text, I’m not that big of an idiot

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