Love over everything

I hate to see all the young kings in here beating themselves up over a relapse Check this out. You need to fail. You need to relapse. You need to because that’s how you learn to not make porn the enemy. Hate is such a strong emotion and You need to learn not to give porn so much of your energy. For me , I couldn’t tel you how many times I said never again and then relapsed. I would be so angry and make porn my enemy because I hated it so much. But that would just fuel my habit. Instead I learned to approach it with love. I started to see porn for what it is. Just a situation that I took to far. Not some evil thing that had control over me. Just a silly laptop screen. That’s it. So instead of hate, I treated it like a girlfriend and that it was time to finally break up. And I did it with love in my heart. Now I’m far from perfect, and trust me my guard is still up against porn. But I can tell you that this time is different. I don’t have any urges bc I don’t give it that much of my energy. I offer this as a new perspective to the young kings on here in their journey. I hope this helps 🚀🚀🚀🚀