Hi guys, just got here. I want to share this, i pray it reaches you well. Lust has ruined me, it has destroyed my emotional connection with myself and others. It has completely destroyed my 3 year relationship with someone who truly cared deeply about my being, i hurt her deeply and caused a lot of pain. Lust is a poison, it's quiet but the damage is loud. The damage is immense, and if not felt in the present it'll be felt in the future. I'm tired of hurting others, I'm tired of hurting myself. Seeking pleasure in lust truly is a form of self hatred - I wasn't aware until my ex told me l hated myself, deep down she is right.