My hardest struggle
Day 5
by The man
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When I hangout with my girlfriend we usually have sex which is fine but the thing that gets me caught up in is that when I’m away from her I kinda miss that feeling and want to masturbate. Every time I do it I feel like shit and want to die I’m trying my best to quit but I just don’t know if it will ever get easier because I’m still finishing when I have sex with her and it just feels like I restart after that then idk. Anyone got any advice to help?
Hiya friend, it’s definitely very challenging, we get it. The first few days and even weeks will be the most challenging by far. I don’t know if your goal is to stop masturbating, semen retention, to just stop masturbating to online porn, or something else; all are valid goals! For many in similar situations, nutting when you’re with your partner is considered to be fine since it’s a healthy part of most relationships. Instead, many people’s goal is to quit consuming online porn, since it is more likely to get you addicted to it, and end up causing you a lot more problems. When you feel that urge to masturbate, I would try to walk around until it goes away. Or I would try to focus on the next time you can see your girl, and hold out until then. Good luck hombré