My whole motivation is to be better for my gf (ex), porn was one of the main reason why she broke up with me, we talked a bit and she got angry again because of my mistakes and told me she doesn't wanna talk, and wanna end things forever. Im losing my whole world and my motivation to keep going. Guys should i contact her after some time again?
I suggest u deal with your addiction first before getting back with your ex like u said it ruined your relationship and not relationship but im sure it also has destroyed u mentally and emotionally. One way to deal with this is to start working out and hitting thr gym that's something that has helped me. Also asking God for help is really important, pray him and tell him to help you with the temptation. You ex already knows that u are struggling so ask her to help you through it ask, and u dont need motivation you need discipline which isnt easy but it'll be worth it. You're not alone in this man, we all are struggling and we all want to become better and we will. Hope this helped man
Tell her that you still believe she’s an incredible person and you’d love to work things out with her. Tthat you’re actively working on yourself and trying to be a better person. And if she ever changes her mind she should reach out to you That’s all you need to say then go no contact. If she loves you and her mind changes after a while she’ll reach out. If she doesn’t then move on
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You may not like to hear this, but here it goes: - you MUST change for yourself. If she’s the reason why, then you won’t last - she’s broken up with you. Are you confident in the future that you won’t resent her, or that she won’t break up with you if things get difficult again? Whether it be kids, or life problems, can you definitively say she wont leave again? This is no fault to her either. She’s within her rights to do what she wants to, but you need to think deeply about this part. It’s harsh, but we can’t base our self improvement decisions on another person. This is your path to walk because you have chosen to walk it. And it can’t be because you want to get her back. Good luck to you in your journey!