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Advice on Sexual/Lustful Demons

Day 1
by T
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I need advice from fellow believers. So I am with my current girlfriend and honestly as much as it sucks to say our relationship started out of lust and us sleeping together but ultimately grew to love one another. It slowly pulled me from my faith not realizing it. But overtime I’ve been so convicted by sleeping together and doing unholy things. About a month ago we agreed to go try and be celibate and work on our walk with Christ. But I have been entrapped in this constant lust and overwhelming desire and honestly idek what to do. I try reading scripture and praying but am I being held back by my significant other. Not her fault by any means but shoot I just can’t help myself. I’ve had hesitant thoughts of our relationship but ultimately backed out of it. Was that a sign to protect me from this or what bc idek. Can I bounce back while being in this relationship that was initially sexually driven? I’m trying to be a better man of God but I feel so held back from this Thanks in advance

Comments (2)
John67d ago

Run from sexual immorality. Nothing affects us more than that. What’s that mean to you? Sex outside of marriage is thrilling at first, then you can kind of get stuck in a cycle when you’re convicted about abstaining. Sounds like you guys are not on the same page with this. Maybe that’s incompatibility or maybe your gf feeling unloved if you’re not physically pursuing her (this is something she might need therapy for.)

Javier Dominguez67d ago

Similar boat. Here, I suppose asking a spiritual father for help. And perhaps pray to God for discernment what to do about that relationship.

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