You make the rules - but don’t cheat yourself

This is going to be controversial and many won’t vibe with this. But that is kinda the point. In regard to what counts as a relapse or what is ok for you in terms expressing yourself sexually, that is for you to define and only you. Nobody’s belief system is your own. Now I’m not saying go do whatever you want and it doesn’t count. But set the line. If masturbating once a week to no porn or having great sex with your partner (leading to orgasm) is a streak ender, then that is your mindset. All good. But it may not be someone else’s. For someone else, that is totally fine. For someone else, they are living their best life. And it sure isn’t your place to determine someone else’s boundary. I hope everyone can find peace with their sexuality. Nobody else but you can set your boundaries. But be true to those and don’t tweak them. You know when you are out of line. If you have to ask, you probably are.