Is this okay?

Day 4

by Jordan

June 8, 2025 at 03:59 PM

105 upvotes

I’ve been on this app for 4 days and going strong not watching porn, but I did get off a couple times looking at photos of my wife when it gets difficult. Not sure if that counts as relapsing?? I definitely don’t feel as guilty, but I would like to eventually get to a point where I don’t have urges to masturbate anymore. Just don’t know what to do.

Comments (3)

Matt•71d ago

I feel the same way. I don’t feel nearly as guilty, but it seems like a grey area of relapsing. When I feel weak I’d rather turn to pictures of her than fully relapsing. I’d also like to get to the point where I can control the urge completely. I think cold turkey is best, but that is the best type of relapse.

Marco•71d ago

Well it’s a porn free app, you can get off just don’t watch anything

Jordan•71d ago

I believe it does technically count, but don’t be hard on yourself. You just started same as me. Talk to yourself the way you would talk to someone else who started this same journey.

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