Lust is the problem

I have spent my entire post puberty life looking at women with lustful eyes. Wether that be with porn or on social media. Or girls that I know. And love cannot exist where love is. My list drove me to cheat on my fiancée my lust drove me to watch porn even after she told me to stop. Lust is the problem and when we can surrender that lust to God love can take its place. True love of God not superficial puppy love our society equates. But real unending love. I refuse to look at women the way I have before because it has destroyed my life. But I now desire the eyes of the lord to see women as they are, beautifully wonderfully made creations of God. They are daughters of my savior and they are the current or future wives of another. Surrender your lust my friends with Gods grace may you find peace and love in its fullness