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by Mika
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Day 8 and I didn't feel any pressure until I got some stuff from a girl I've a friendship with. Idk why she sent me something because its also the first time she sent me stuff like that and I'm about to block her but in the end its my fault. If I was strong I would have deleted it immediately but I was weak and relapsed. Maybe its fr better if I block her but I'm not sure. Your thoughts about this are welcome

Comments (5)
Dan204d ago

If you think it will be safer than have the conversation over FaceTime, and not in text form or in person. God bless

Dan204d ago

When women do that type of thing they often just want attention from you. Give her the right type of validation. Tell her she’s beautiful, but at the same time remind her that she doesn’t need to do this for attention, and that you care more about her than your own wants. Maybe she’s not the prettiest thing, but my guess is if you don’t like consuming this stuff, your stomach probably turns at the thought that shes done it before and will continue to do it for others. Tell her that you personally don’t want it. And be a brother in the situation and have a hard conversation if possible

Mika205d ago

I know her and I don't know why she sent me pictures because thats never something between us. I asked her why but she didn't replied yet. But maybe its better I just block her. Idk man I just don't want to sin anymore

Kj205d ago

Personally I’ve gone through something just like this, sending pictures like that is way to normalized in today’s world. Anyway I’ll get to the point, the first step shouldn’t be blocking her, maybe even if it’s a little humiliating just say “hey, I appreciate how comfortable you are with me. But you don’t have to send me photos like that” just simply say how you don’t want that type of photos from her. Chances are she will stop after that but if she persist then consider blocking her but make sure to tell her why before hand so she knows why

Joel205d ago

I think that if you truly want to commit to the change you need to remove everything that will tempt you. Images from the past, as well as if you know that a person will cause that temptation it may be best to set up those boundaries and tell them that you don’t want to see anything. And if they do not agree then you can always block them if that is the best choice for you in the moment. Cause you just want to make the best choice for yourself.

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