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When does the loneliness go away

Day 20
by S
959 upvotes

Those with 1 month + streak. When did you start feeling less lonely? I’m finding it hard to not pickup the phone and entertain these hoes that I would not ever be with. It’s very tempting. I’ve even been talking to my ex a bit but I feel like I’m doing all of this for the wrong reasons and because I’m lonely. My original plan was to recover completely and then level up to pull the right girl. I just don’t know how much longer I can hold being alone. I’m not even worried about relapse, I’m worried about going back to hooking up with ppl and being hyper sexual. Already got rid of TikTok and limited my Instagram screen time + unfollowed all girls. What else am I missing? Should I look for a partner or is it too soon? My ex was a good girl I lost due to porn, I don’t deserve her. Should I just go back to her?

Comments (6)
Olufemi215d ago

There’s a version of yourself that God’s created you to become and He’s with you on this journey. If you delight yourself in God He’ll give you your hearts desires. You aren’t alone. Jesus will be with you if you invite Him in. He has an amazing plan for your life and future. Don’t fall into the trap of “holding out” for a girl. God knows what you need and when. He’ll provide bro, stay encouraged.

Dan216d ago

I’d recommend making a plan/ purpose for your life, that you’d be proud if it was the only thing that your family remembered you for. I know that’s a lot. But I think one of the reasons men now days are lost is because we forget about legacy.

Dan216d ago

You need a purpose my friend

Dan216d ago

Let’s hypothetically say that your ex is someone that you would have a beneficial and mature relationship with. That still doesn’t mean that you should stay clean for her. If you care about your next relationship you need to be able to find the motivation to do it for something higher than a girl or yourself. People will always fail you, and once that idol fails you, you will rebel against it.

Ev200216d ago

Your streak in no fap will manifest the right woman. The world has a funny way of working itself out. Whether it’s a new woman or your ex gods plan is much larger than you think. It’s not about having a large streak. It’s about protecting your masculinity. Every time you fap you are proving to yourself and the world that you are weak. You are literally giving your masculinity away to something cheap. Why would any woman want that. Prove to yourself first that you’re worth more to manifest the right woman in your life bro. Think about a time in your life that one day. You won’t have this problem anymore and you’ll have a good woman by your side too.

S216d ago

Feel free to share your experience even if not 30 days +

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