does it count
does it count if i look at the nude pictures my gf has sent me but didn’t masturbate ?
does it count if i look at the nude pictures my gf has sent me but didn’t masturbate ?
I agree with Sauce. It’s all about self control, if you didn’t masturbate don’t be too hard on yourself, BUT if you, yourself felt that it was opposite of your goals then, delete the pictures because it isn’t contributing to your progress. In this situation, it’s all about what you’re striving towards and what true progress/success means to you. From what it sounds like based on what you’ve written, you should take a break from those type of photos for awhile. It doesn’t mean you aren’t attracted to her, it just means you need time to focus on disciplining yourself and regaining self control.
Like we are humans. We are gunna get aroused. The important part is what do u do when u get tempted to masturbate
That’s your lady. She prolly sending the nudes because you been on your shit and focused. Look at it, admire it for a sec and keep it moving.
It does, the point of quitting is to let go of actions which lead u to masturbation. Looking and reading would only make ur lust more and more aggressive until u can't resist it anymore. Stay strong
i feel disappointed in myself for looking because i did feel it was wrong and opposite of one of my goals and only looked for less than a minute yet at the same time the main reason for me quitting was to strengthen mine and hers relationship so the fact i looked at her instead of random females online is a plus .or is it not ?
How does it make you feel?
Flee from sexual immorality. Place a boundary and tell her you don’t want them on your phone and you don’t want her to send them to you anymore. Not because you don’t find her attractive or don’t love her but the opposite. Because you love her so much you’re not willing to sin and have her sin by sending such pictures. Lead her to the cross. Jesus died so we can life and as you die to yourself and kill what your flesh wants help to bring her along side you