Smh

I think you should be proud of yourself for the attempts you’ve made and focus less on results. Easier said than done, and I am not one to talk because I’ve quite literally never in my entire life put myself out there, in many ways honestly, but with women most. Keep improving yourself, keep approaching women and I’m sure good things will happen for you.

man i wonder about my looks too sometimes, which is also part of my reason of wanting to go to the gym. i wouldn’t say im big, hell i don’t even weigh 180 and i’m 5’6 but i still feel that i could lose some weight. you kinda just gotta wait for the right girl sometimes

Not that as easy to do that while the back of my thoughts I’m remembering the times I shoot my shot and it failed. And ima funny guy and have an amazing mindset I just feel like my looks ain’t good enough for the society I’m in. Which makes me wonder how I’ve gotten girlfriends 🤣

seems like in a way we’re opposites, all i can tell you man just don’t rush on too strong and be yourself, and be funny too bro the girls you want love funny guys, i’m still convinced i only got my gf i have now was because i was funny when we went to school together😂

Talking to people in small portions. Saying hi, hello, how’s ur day going. And making small talk (And sometimes when speaking to a girl a good mindset is to be yourself as well as being confident in everything you say and do). Also biggest thing is knowing you sometimes won’t hit every shot but you’ll miss the ones you never shoot 👍🏾.

120 being the getting shot down

I go to the gym already so I have confidence but at the same time I don’t so.. and only feel like because in the past the ratio between me getting with girls to me getting shot down is like 120 to 8

almost in the same boat, not with fear of rejection because i have a gf, but social anxiety. i have two hours of alone time between 5am and 7am and im going to push myself to go to the gym in hopes of getting rid of my free time, got my subscription today, gonna try to go tomorrow but im so scared for it.