Is it normal?

Day 4

by Chet

May 11, 2025 at 06:42 PM

56 upvotes

Asking for some advise.. is it normal to feel invisible during a porn or masturbation addiction? I work out, I take care of myself, people might say I’m a decent looking guy yet I feel like I am completely invisible. I feel like I’m just unattractive and I am more than likely projecting, but if I see a girl and she doesn’t at least notice me, I feel unwanted or invisible. I constantly struggle with this. I’m hoping getting sober from this addiction will change all of that. Who knows, maybe they can sense the shame.. anyone else feel this way? Thank you to anyone who can help me with this..

Comments (4)

Chet•99d ago

Thx Mark! 🤙

Chet•99d ago

Thank you Kathryn ❤️‍🩹 I really appreciate you taking the time to send this. This is such a great community. I know what’s on the other side of this and I know God’s plan are much more for my life. Thank you and I hope the best for you.

Mark•99d ago

1 Corinthians 10:13

Kathryn🤍•99d ago

Hey Chet, I think that’s very normal, sadly. Porn addiction can really destroy your self-esteem, dignity, and how you view yourself - - because deep down you know that you’re lost. Porn destroys confidence, but self control, discipline, being connected with God and what He wants for you is literally life changing. I think you know the only way out of that feeling and despair is to fight this. And I can testify (after multiple time periods in my life of success with cutting porn) that it’s a pretty quick turn around once you’ve conquered this sin. So seek Jesus brother, fight this temptation, master your urges- you’ve got this!💪🏻

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