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Just make sure you aren’t lusting get to know her first attractive is good but personality is key

Looking at porn could be a trap bro it’ll soften you up

No, not at all. Keep in mind that porn is defined as “printed or visual material containing the explicit description or display of sexual organs or activity, intended to stimulate sexual excitement” (reference: google). It is important that you do not view her in a bikini in a lustful way though, because it can be easy for us to imagine something innocent into something of the likeliness of porn. Possibly, in the future just reply with a nice compliment, then try and abstain from viewing it again and again. I hope this help, big ups for sharing and the best of luck to you with this girl 👍