Looking at sexy photos of wife

Fair game brother, as long as you’re not masturbating with it to avoid real intimacy. Just keep directing that desire towards your wife instead of girls that don’t know you exist

Porn is porn. You’re associating sexual feelings with a screen. I had pictures and sex tapes with my wife and I would relapse with them and tried to justify it. I deleted them and I’ve felt better. It was hard because it was me and it felt personal, but in the end - it’s jacking off to a screen.

I believe under the covenant of marriage it’s all free game. I think research has shown though that it can still desensitize you to photos of her. Meaning those photos/videos might do something for you now, but potentially not in the future.