Got it all but just want to sleep with someone else

Thank you for the messages*. I know sleeping with someone else would lead to me feeling disappointed. I guess there’s just something wants other people to want me. I always felt like the guy that couldn’t get girls back in the day. Guess it’s all just to do with my own self worth

Thank you for the message

In church 2 weeks ago the pastor talked about the 80/20 issue. Basically it’s where you want to leave or betray the person giving you 80% of what you want, to chase the 20% that they don’t. I get it, but think about what you’d be losing just to get a fraction of what you already have.

You should really change your mindset & perspective. I know for a fact that if you did sleep with someone else, you’d be extremely disappointed. You’re in a position most people can not dream of. Surprise your wife. Take her out. Strengthen your bond with her. (I know you got a wife bcs I saw your text in the official chat)