What’s the ruling

But you set the rules of your own journey. We’re all trying to better ourselves, but that looks different for everyone. The important thing is that you’re honest with yourself and you commit.

It’s subjective to what your beliefs are. If you’re looking for a biblical answer/godly perspective, Dillon’s right. If that doesn’t concern you as much, then I would say ask yourself if you feel like this experience would cause you to develop unhealthy conceptions of your relationship with this woman, with sex in general, or lead you to want more and ultimately go back to porn when the lust cannot be satiated by a woman.

Sex is healthier than masturbation. If you didn’t masturbate but you have sex every other day you’ll increase in testosterone and confidence it’s healthy for you

No for sure not, although similar jerking off is quick relief while sex is more sexual and intimate

idk if ur not married, it’s sexual immorality and lust. so it would not be a good thing