No excuses, but the struggle is real
Need some advice fellas😔In the past couple of months, I’ve been suffering from high blood pressure (HTN), it’s due to several factors that include weight gain and life stress. I generally sound tired and people can noticed this in my voice. I try to hide the struggle with a fake smile but people can see through it. I could not even entertain a girl because the condition I’m currently in. I make six figures but still can’t enjoy my life the way I thought I would. The only way I would escape is by jerking off once a week. If I retain longer, I feel my heart beating fast multiple times a day. I don’t want to sound weak but that’s where am at now. I decided to cut porn and masturbation no matter the cost. I know marriage can be the solution to this issue. Rather than referring to medication . I’m only 28. And my dad died young too. Pray for me
My advice is don’t look towards marriage as the solution to the problems you face now. I got married last year with similar expectations, I thought once we were married that I would just stop masturbating and all would be ok. That’s not what happened, and even worse I started lying about lusting after other women to my wife. Trust was lost and a hard lesson was learned. By working together you can conquer your problems alongside your wife, but it is just as hard, maybe even harder, as doing it alone. Sending prayers!