Question

i see a woman and just think “damn she bad”

Before I was addicted to porn, simply seeing a woman was arousing to me. Her femininity, her features. Without delving into any kinks. The woman alone was arousing. It was much less a thought, but rather my feeling and my nature. It was only as I went deeper into porn the kinks I got into became progressively more intense and messed up. I believe my brain needed more extreme ways of viewing explicit content to achieve the same affect as what simply seeing a woman used to do for me. My thinking is, the kinks will always be apart of me now. I can’t change that. However, when I am free of my addiction and my brain has reset after a long period of time. I will return to that original state where simply seeing a woman is enough. All that to say, my advice would be to focus on the quitting of the porn, and then focus on your sexual arousal to women. Because it’ll all be easier then at least

After you get addicted to porn when you see a women you do not think normally, you just have to change your brain style it’s insanely hard to do

i dont mean it for just the sexual thoughts, normal ones too. when u see a good looking woman, what are ur thoughts? All I wanna do is learn how to think normally