LDR
I’m in a long distance relationship, would doing things with her online count as a relapse? If so, what can I do to make sure the intimacy in our relationship doesn’t fall behind?
I’m in a long distance relationship, would doing things with her online count as a relapse? If so, what can I do to make sure the intimacy in our relationship doesn’t fall behind?
The IA of this app says “Engaging in intimate activities with a partner, even through technology, is a natural part of a healthy relationship and not considered a relapse. It's important to focus on connections that foster mutual respect and consent. Remember, the goal is to build healthier habits and relationships, free from feelings of guilt or shame.” Hope it helps!!!
And im sorry what is the purpose of a long distance relationship???
Be careful tho, masturbating with her, made it easier for me to relapse, after my first 8 days…
Not a relapse but I would avoid sexting as it can be a trigger
I personally don’t consider it a relapse, the reason I’m stopping porn, is to be able to live my love life fully. I’m in the same situation, & online is the only option we have. I judge it off of feeling. It feels real with her. While with porn, it is as mentioned above, a dopaminic bomb of fakeness
From my perspective, the dopamine segregated while watching porn is from variety, fake body, fake sounds, exaggerations in general, so I asume is not the same than playing with your partner and just your partner. For sure it would be a temptation to continue watching porn, so idk, it’s a hard decision you must make. It’s just my perspective
Maybe…crazy idea…talk to her? Invest in her and actually care not in a sexual manner Paired is a good app to work through those type of questions as a couple.
Wouldn’t even consider this a relationship just delusion