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Use the content blocker
I tried to relapse today, but the content blocker on this app is actually better than I expected. I even went to turn it off and it wouldn’t let me. I eventually gave up on trying to relapse.
I relapsed two days ago
I was on a 140ish day streak and the temptation creeped up on me out of nowhere. It had been months without the thought of porn or jerking off but it got me. I’m bummed out but I’m starting my streak again now and I have God and you guys to support me. Thank yall and may we get back into this.
Keep fighting the good fight
My brothers and sisters, I know the battle is hard and temptation is a very strong enemy. But remember, we are not to fight it, for we have God and because we have God, we’ve already won. So although it’s hard, endure through it, because at the end of the day we’ve already won.
how do i let go of the guilt
Porn has hurt my relationship and the person i love most, my girlfriend, so terribly. It’s caused me to lie and cause her pain. It’s caused me tremendously guilt and shame. A month ago i decided to quit fully and be better, but 28 days later i relapsed and lied to my girlfriend about it. Not only does me watching porn destroy her self esteem and self worth, but the lie i carried and confessed to her shattered a large portion of trust she had in me. I hurt her so deeply and i feel terrible and ashamed because of it. We talked for hours and she forgave me and I made a commitment to fully act on quitting this addiction. Not only does it mean I stop watching porn but I become whole and fix the pile of issues that lead to my relapsed. I want to become a better man. Today’s the next day and I know this won’t go away over night. I just feel this pit in my stomach and sense of nausea because I can still see she’s not ok from the pain i caused her. I am working to be better. But how can I let go of the guilt and shame I hold from my mistakes. Any tips or words of encouragement or advice are much needed and appreciated. Thank you
Quitter - No Crank App
Has anyone used this app to not be tempted to crank it? I don’t have a porn issue per se, I just don’t want to crank it.
Relapses
Does anyone have any tips to stop relapses from happening? I know the classics like keep yourself busy and put content blockers in place but, even with that it’s hard. For me personally, it’s hard to stay busy and motivated. And the content blocker works great on my phone however i have nothing in place on my pc and i feel that’s making it much harder.
2 weeks clean
It’s been rough sometimes it’s all I think about but I’m starting to feel way more in control
Feeling tired
I slip up here and there. I want to be like Christ. I went too far with my relationship with my girlfriend and having to back up is hard. Some days I’m good and sometimes I’m just not. I am tired, I feel like I battle all the time
One more day mentality
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47 days in
Anybody else feel intense urges around this time? It’s been so long and going back to porn isn’t an option, but man the urges are blasting me today to just take a peek
Achievement
I am almost 3 days clean and it’s been the longest I have ever been. I know it’s not a big number, but I am positive about converting this streak into a long one.
Post breakup
The pain of my recent breakup made me relapse and binge. I’m on a journey to strengthen my relationship with God and fill the open time I have since I’m now single and jobless. Thanking God for His blessings and for the grace of Jesus Christ.
6 days boys
My account says 7 days cause i forgot to reset it once, but we did almost a full week. 7 days here we come
STAND FIRM & STRONG ⚡️
Based on experience, relapsing will only make things worse. It will keep you trap in a vicious, never ending cycle of shame & hopelessness. I’d suggest you endure & embrace the pain as it is only through it that you will be victorious. There is no other way around it. Do not give yourself a relapse pass. If you do, get back up and fight harder! With all your might, make up your mind on quitting & stick to it. Everyone on here will be rooting for you. 🫡 Anyway FUCK PORN!
In the gym
In the gym rn. Did 25 minutes of intensive cardio now doing biceps and more, I’m going crazy.🤪🤪
32 Days
i’m feeling urges again like no other but i’m staying strong and actually praying and worshipping God while reflecting on my reasons not to relapse have been helping out a ton. Seeing that streak number go up every day makes me want to go even further with this journey, it’s not easy chat but we got this , PORN HAS NO HOLD OVER US ANYMORE JESUS IS LORD ✝️❤️
Fleeing from lust isn’t enough
I always hear about fleeing from lust, which is great, but what’s so so important is where you flee too. Running aimlessly will bring no help. You need to run headfirst towards God. Through daily worship, prayer and bible reading you can really flee lust. I just had a weekend Christian festival and I feel so so so much better, I haven’t had any urges and I truly feel God’s blessing. Now I just need to keep it up everyday. The devil is patient, he will wait for you to slip up, so stay on guard and constantly run towards God.
Bout to start
Got this app about to start my journey any tips?
made it to day 12
let’s get it 💪🏽
One week boys
It’s been a week since I relapsed. And I’m feeling good. No temptations so far. Staying away from the triggers and getting some fresh air although I will say I’ve been feeling so distracted, maybe even lost. Like I’m here physically but mentally somewhere else like a certain type of emptiness. Does anyone else feel the same way?