One week

It’s been one week and I am feeling really good. This is the first app that I’ve tried where the content restriction is actually working. My biggest trigger is at night before bed. Just laying down, my old habit begins tempting me. This week I’ve been able to toss my phone across the room and leave it there. To help distract and recenter my thoughts, I picked up a Book I’ve have for five years and am actually reading it and almost finished! Continued reminders of why I want to stop for good have been my rock as well.

22 days

I’m clear

Be a soldier NOT a gooner

Porn seems harmless until you try to stop. Then you realize it was an addiction. A porn-free life is possible! Don’t let your mind make you think otherwise. Keep fighting the good fight boys! 🫡 FUCK PORN!

How to avoid gooning.

Be so busy that you literally don’t have time to goon. When your laying there in bed so tired just go to sleep. The urge to goon while being tired asf is a very strong. Trust me if you just go to sleep it gives you that same mental clarity that you get after gooning

The dreams are crazy

Around 22 days since I’ve watched porn. Dreams are so much more vibrant which is interesting. Like there is a clear difference before and after. Most dreams are sexual dreams which is not appreciated but that being said there is a clear difference. I would assume it’s to do with dopamine. Since it’s being spent less on PMO

Massive? You know what else is massive?

Hey bro get click baited. The days in the beginning are long. Trust the process.

Quit cold turkey and never look back 🫡

You will thank me later! You got this boys stand firm and strong! 🗣️

Urges!

Can’t seem to get past a few days. I’m 2 days in and hoping I’m done with porn. I’m ready to put it in the past. I’m struggling with triggers. Social media, scrolling TikTok, or just watching movies. A couple people mentioned push ups. I’m way out of shape but I’m gonna start doing it. I’m going for it.

Relapsed

This is tough man, I relapsed. I gave into the stress for a temporary bit of relief… The signs where there I was having a lot of stress and looking for an escape, I need to be aware of this next time and find an alternative solution Disappointed, but I will pick myself up quickly and start again.

Huge setback

So, I’m the guy that came on here a few days ago and found out my partner was pregnant. Well 3 days ago we found out she had miscarried. It really has been a tough few days, and as a result I fell straight back into the porn trap as a coping mechanism. I live in the U.K. so I’ve even gone to the lengths of downloading a VPN to avoid the new anti-porn laws. I’ve picked myself up from the miscarriage, but now is the time to re-focus and get away from porn for good.

Setback

Facebook time limit was not successful so decided to completely delete facebook from my phone only can access through laptop at home now hopefully that will help

Life.

I’ve been having problems, my whole life I’ve had this addiction since I was as young as 13 it led me down a dark path and since I had sex at a young age I always correlated sex to love. So to love someone is to have sex with said person.which leads into now my birthday was last week I turned 21 and I’ve been married for a little under a year, at first I kept it a secret but multiple times within my relationship it was discovered and she told me how disgusting it is to her, asking questions like why can’t I just have eyes for her, and saying I can’t love her whilst doing this. This is her 3rd time catching me and at first she wanted to help me heal found me this app and have been with me every step of the way but after last night i think my marriage is over she can’t take anymore of this. My lust over women is my downfall and she’s so heavy on the subject she will leave me. I’m lost. Tried explaining to her how I feel about all of it how it’s just a release it’s not a fantasy of cheating or wanting other women but that just doesn’t help. I love my wife and I want to be with her i just am lost on how to get better I tried many times and don’t know why I relapse. I think it’s to late to get better

I can’t break two days

I feel I’m going well until I hit the night of day two it’s my downfall every time I’m trying to be a best version of myself daily I’m sick letting Christ down I love him too much to stay in this limbo

fell back in addiction

fell. back into my lifelong porn addiction i was doing great snd went back to the vomit, this time i’m struggling in a hole again and watching all kinds of filthy thing, im learning this is like a mind set and once it hooks you again you get stuck like a fish on a lure idk what to do trynna reset my mind and get back to my healthy habits

Temptation gone? 8 days in, is this a false

Day 8 here, I’m like less tempted than ever to relapse. Like my sex drive is lowered or something, not sure, is this normal?

Day 3

Third day in snd I’m starting to feel the urges. Nothing I can’t handle through the support of this app and just thinking through it. Wish everyone the best of luck no matter your progress. You’ve got this.

Day 31 + Escape Plan

Urges and traps are still present but pressing forward. Escape Plan: If temptation hits: step away, pray out loud, text someone, do something active, refocus on your “why.” You don’t fight alone.

U CAN DO IT !

just believe in urself as u see i just relapsed 20 min ago😭 a but that doesn't mean we are giving up that means we get up and do better next time don’t go hard on urself dont fight urself but u have to fight that urge take a pause every day and let ur brain have a break and just go through ur mind and dont forget to exercise that brings u decipline and remember u are not alone we are all on this app talking together and motivating each other and thats what matters. Good luck soldiers 🫡

Day 10 feeling great but urges

More energy, focus and clarity. Urges are so strong though where I’m convincing myself I’m missing out by not capitalising on being so horny after these long streaks. Benefits vs the massively increased sex drive is hard

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